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This is a very shaky topic that could potentially stir up some hurt feelings.
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It's not a choice, it's hormonal, you don't just choose to be gay or choose to be straight. Whatever you are depends on what your body's hormones are.
As for me, I have adopted an "I dont care what you are as long as you don't attempt to do anything I would not like" opinion. Basically, i dont care what somebody is, but as long as they don't [expletive deleted] me off, offend me, be mean, or be dirty (without my consent) or act like they're attracted to me (and i am not to them) then I am perfectly fine. I have many gay, lesbian, trans, nonbinary friends and they're just people in the end (except for the one who does not even identify as a human but that's another topic).
As for myself, I really have not figured out exactly what I am. It's very complicated and confusing how my feelings are, but I'll figure it out eventually. Someday.