I have deleted the three posts that contained a bit of role-playing from one particular member.
I’ve received a message from one of the real-world people who was involved in one of the posts saying he was uncomfortable. I was also rather annoyed to see this. We shall have no more of this.
There is being interested, then there is being obsessed, then there is becoming so obsessed you begin to have fantasies about other people on this site, and that is when things cross a line. Have fantasies all you want but do not tell anybody about them. Or better yet, do not have fantasies at all. The thought of that just makes me cringe.